i came across reading this article on idiva.com about love and i thought of sharing it here so that this would help some of you to know what is love and what it isn't . have fun reading peepos !

Some came asking about a long lost love, some wanted to know about whether they had found their soulmate, some hoped to find answers to a loveless marriage, and some just wanted to know if love was coming into their lives. That’s what prompted me to write on what I understood of love. What it is. And what it isn’t.

Love Is…

• Free. Love comes when it wants to. Nothing and nobody on this planet can make anyone fall in love with us. Lovecannot be bought or sold. It’s free.
• Self Love. The only way we can be ready to receive love is when there's an adequate amount of love within us. The first step towards attracting love is to love yourself. Self love isn’t selfish or only about pampering ourselves. It begins when we accept ourselves just the way we are.
• Love is addictive. It is a high and all we do is hold on to the memory, the look, the connection. Our whole lives are spent searching for that happy high. But love is not a drug for the low times. Love is oxygen, all around us from the time before we were born and it will endure for a long time after we die. The first step in learning about love is becoming aware of the amount of love already in our lives. Think of the people who you love, who love you, the things you love and you’ll get an idea about the force of love.

Love Is Not…

• Trying to change or rescue the other person. The minute we believe the other person has to be a certain way, we’re asking for disappointment. All of us are perfect just the way we are. And love is acceptance.
• Expectations. Expect too much and we only get hurt. Expect nothing and prepare for pleasant surprises.
• Always the Same. Love changes, grows. People get closer or drift apart. Loving relationships require hard work and commitment from both parties. Loved ones will change over time.
•  Predictable. We never know when we fall in love. And no one can tell us either. If it happens, we just know.

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i am gonna crap . crap like a mad woman now . don't bother okay bloggy ? oh well i missed you so bad :)

was going through life at one point it got me think that why men disagree on their woman being successful . not all the men are not being supportive but to those certain men who disagreeing . like men loved to be admired , women crave to be affirmed . intrestingly , women have no problem being led if only their views and opinions are respected . even the strongest of them longs for a pillar to lean on .

dear certain men's , you need know somethin that your woman needs to be appreciated  the gift in her and challange her to get out of the nest and be the best . not being able to support full heartedly or criticizing your woman is the sure way of killing her dreams and pushing her away from you . when downtrodden strong women slip away from their men and do it on their own . now wonder a good number of successful women are single . funny enough though , even these credits their success to a supportive father . the dreamer you married needs support and encouragement . if you don't support her you will certainly lose her . she will stagnate and you will start thinking that she's boring .

if only all the men understood this and give their women the support they needed , then the world would be a better place because women would find it so easy to submit and likewise men would find themselves loving their woman withh all their flaws . men should not be threatened by a go-getter kind of a woman because trust me , she can never be a man and take your place . when you support her (even in her craziest of dreams) , she will compliment you efforts to improve your status a great deal .

So that’s what we should look for in a man - someone who is secure enough to let his woman take centre stage without even the smallest pang of jealousy.


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when you are having everything that you need for what you wanna be but you dont have energy and stuck in the middle of somewhere bluring around thinkin' how to get out from here is something which you have to think deep about it . the hardest part of our life is when they take controls of your life that makes you forgot how you used to be . they provide you everything that you want but will be blocking your ways to reach your dreams , real batshit hardest thing ever ever ever and ever , you know , humans ? you'll have so much ideas of doing so much of things in this young blood period but it just tear you apart when you get to know of them blocking your ways from what you wanna achieve . Its actually kinna make your heart cries like heck . you could hardly breath cause , not a single support that you get . it changes you , it changes yourself , you dont be who you are and you dont be beautiful too . To stop all that , i need to find a way . a path .a path to my MASSIVE dreams . gotta practise . i can be someone too . someone worth living .  should stop acting like a kid seriously . Im not stupid . i need to take rest now . so bai .


its a post created by me on 15.2.2012 which stucked in my draft all this while . lol

stole this posts from my beloved sister's blogger , tried and i found those four words which described about the exzact me . hahaha . 

lazy . charisma . passionate . honest .

err , idk about the last one but yeh , :)

its amazing how you feel lucky to have music to breath . no , im not talking abt the music that you just hear by ears . For me , music is something that i feel from what i produce . listening to music and feeling the music is diffrent but when you have the music by your hands , mind and heart is something that every one should feel . do you guys get it ? its like , you play piano and when you feel the sound goes through your hands and your ears and your mind and your heart theres something happends in you , something  like the feel when it just vanish into thin air inside you and tickles your heart , it makes you happy , it makes you feel lucky that you can produce sound where everyonelse who are not in music can't . Music accept you as how you are , lets you be who you are , it makes you realise how good and preety and soft you are inside , music understands you . makes you spark and you will be happy , just happy . i want to live in music festival forever , wouldnt that be perfect ? cause , sometimes , you need it to block of your thoughts . sometimes , writing music is the only way to escape .

do you guys get whatever im trying to crap over here !? simple , you hear people playing instruments and produce music and you feel them inside you , you feel that sound inside you , but when you play the instruments and you feel your own sound , THATS you , THATS yourself , and you just feel magical , easy and feelin lucky to own it . i know i might make people who dont do music jelly but , i need to tell the music and the world how much i appreciate and love and realise what i have in my hands .

well , feeling cold . im out . ☮




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truth is , i am stubborn as hell , i say sorry too much . i act like i dont give a fuck because i care too much . i over analyze the smallest of things & probably come off as a bitch to simply guard myself .

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and i wish he could fly me away from here with his airplane . ;)